My big girl took yet another step towards becoming an adult…..she finally found her first job.  I was worried about her getting one actually…..I didn’t let her work while she was in school, I thought it was more important she concentrate on her school work rather than worry with an after school job.  When she graduated, she decided she didn’t want to go back to school right away, but wanted to work and get some “real world” experience.  While I would like to see her further her education, it is ultimately her decision and I will respect whatever she decides.  I have given her my opinion on the matter, now…