Yet Another Step….
My big girl took yet another step towards becoming an adult…..she finally found her first job. I was worried about her getting one actually…..I didn’t let her work while she was in school, I thought it was more important she concentrate on her school work rather than worry with an after school job. When she graduated, she decided she didn’t want to go back to school right away, but wanted to work and get some “real world” experience. While I would like to see her further her education, it is ultimately her decision and I will respect whatever she decides. I have given her my opinion on the matter, now it is up to her.
Another worry was the fact that we are in a deep recession (I don’t care what all the suits say in Washington, I think it is far from being over!), and there are many people applying for the few jobs that are available. She was very fortunate and was offered a job at a store in our local mall. They are paying a very decent wage and she will have benefits as well. She is so proud and excited, as am I. But at the same time, I’m a little sad…..my baby girl is definitely growing up. I dropped her off her first day of work……..as I watched her walk in to the building, I could barely snap a photo because of the tears rolling down my face. Tears of pride, excitement and a little sadness too……I’m so proud of you Alanna……so proud of the beautiful young woman you have become ~ I know you will do well….I know you will be fine!
4 Comments
Gina
What a big step. We are still a few years away from this, I cant imagine what it must be like. You so want to protect your kids.
I often say that my first job (in a grocery store) where I was not treated very well gave me a greater appreciation for a better job down the line. Its hard to appreciate a good job if you haven’t had a lousy one. Of course for your daughter, I would wish for an exception! I hope all her customers are happy and smiling!
Magikal Folk
Gina I am really hoping she has a decent supervisor and more good customers than bad!
Jennifer
Ahh, Debbie – have a virtual hug..{{{{{Debbie}}}}}
It’s always hard ‘letting go’ I’m afraid I wasn’t so good at it.
I bet within a couple weeks, Alanna will be effortlessly taking everything in her step and the financial freedom will be so empowering. You’ve done your very best so enjoy being a proud mom. x
Magikal Folk
Thanks so much Jennifer…..as much as you prepare yourself, it is still difficult to “let go”. That maternal instinct to protect is strong.